By |July 29th, 2019|Uncategorised|

If your relationship house is on fire cool the anger flames. Go back and put the flames out rather than chase the person who lit the fire in the first place. If you chase that person, your house will burn down and your relationship will be in ruins. STEPS TO FOLLOW Contain your anger: do [...]

Create a Resourceful Marriage

By |June 13th, 2018|Uncategorised|

Create a Resourceful Marriage Refine your thoughts to enhance your marriage Your mind is a blueprint for creation, reprogram it to create what you want.    You move through a range altered states 24/7.   These are mental and emotional states, some of which are highly resourceful and some not so resourceful. By being in the present [...]

Satisfied Marriages are Predictable

By |May 8th, 2018|Uncategorised|

SATISIFIED MARRIAGES ARE PREDICTABLE People are wanting to connect on some level with romance and eventually an intimate, happy and long-lasting marriage. The average couple take 6 years before seeking help for marital problems and almost 50% of marriages end in the first 7 years. Many social and cultural forces shape intimate relationships of today.     [...]

Lasting Relationships Come Down To 2 Basic Traits

By |March 28th, 2018|Relationship Counseling, Uncategorised|

Science Says Lasting Relationships Come Down To 2 Basic Traits EMILY ESFAHANI SMITH, The AtlanticNov. 9, 2014, 3:20 PM Science says lasting relationships come down to—you guessed it—kindness and generosity. Every day in June, the most popular wedding month of the year, about 13,000 American couples will say “I do,” committing to a lifelong relationship [...]

Positively Engaged in Your Partner

By |January 24th, 2017|Uncategorised|

Being positively engaged in your partner lets them know that you value them and that you will stay close.   Couples can learn to use the language of love and build conversations that build a loving relationship house. In this relationship house there is a special kind of attention that we can only give to a loved one.  When you gaze [...]

Relationship Bank Account

By |November 28th, 2016|Uncategorised|

RELATIONSHIP BANK ACCOUNT After your last argument you realise your relationship bank account is in "the red", there is little love left to give your partner and not much coming back to you in return. We know that the only focus on conflict resolution in couples therapy is misguided, 69% of conflict in relationship is perpetual, it has [...]