Monthly Archives: December 2016

Master or Disaster Couple Science

By |December 20th, 2016|Relationship Counseling|

MASTER OR DISASTER COUPLE SCIENCE Research has been able to define master or disaster couple science.   Master couples live in a  sound relationship house.  What they do in relationship is very different to what disaster couples do. QUALITES OF MASTER RELATIONSHIPS  Are you a high functioning COUPLE?                                                                                                              There is more positivity than negativity, 5:1 ratio You turn towards each [...]

Build friendship to create safe relationship space

By |December 15th, 2016|Relationship Counseling|

 BUILD FRIENDSHIP TO CREATE SAFE RELATIONSHIP SPACE  Well known relationship experts, Dr's John and Julie Gottman, say that anger in conflict is not dangerous it is the escalation of anger that causes most damage, "only 31% of couples' major areas of continuing disagreement was about a resolvable issue.  69% of the time it was about and [...]