I take a practical approach
to guiding couples in managing conflicts, developing friendship, intensifying intimacy and working towards shared purposes and dreams. In order to do this, we work via a research-based model
(sometimes called an ‘evidence-based’ model), which lets us know what the common facets are that enable master relationships to stay together and be happy. We go through seven levels, all the while recognising that a strong relationship has two essential pillars.
In other words, it’s not all ‘airy-fairy’ talk. I provide you with:
- Research-based methodologies to help manage conflict
- An open dialogue around your most obstructive (and destructive) issues
- Tools to help you manage your arguments and deal with emotions, and
- Techniques to deepen your intimacy.
The model shows you exactly what is getting in the way of your relationship being happy, and helps us identify ways to change this. I have found that this provides hope for the couple when all seems overwhelming or doomed, and also gives me a structure in which I hold strong hope for you.